1. login the service computer
2. psql -ls
3. find the correct user for your odoo13, you can type below code to try it
select id, name, active, last_connection_datetime from website_visitor;
4. once you get the correct user, you can input below two line code and you will find that you can log in now.
DELETE FROM website_visitor WHERE active = False;
DELETE FROM public.website_visitor WHERE id = '1';